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Rescinding Paternity
In Illinois, if parents are not married at the time of a child's birth, then the child's paternity must be established by other means. One way to establish paternity in Illinois is to voluntarily acknowledge one's paternity. To do this, both parents must agree that the man is the child's father.
However, sometimes, a mother or father later regrets the decision to acknowledge paternity. Perhaps one party was pressured into signing, or the father of the child was mistaken. Fortunately, there is a way to rescind the acknowledgment.
Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity
In Illinois, when the father of a child is not married to the child's mother, there are three ways in which a child's paternity may be established:
- A Voluntary Acknowledgement of Paternity form, signed by both parents;
- An administrative order from the Department of Public Aid; or
Types of Alimony in Illinois
When a couple divorces, one spouse is often left at an economic disadvantage in comparison to the other spouse. When this happens, the Court may award alimony (spousal support), known in Illinois as maintenance.
In Illinois, there are several types of spousal support designed to serve multiple purposes. The duration and the amount of maintenance awarded varies based on several factors and on the circumstances of the marriage.
Temporary Maintenance
Typically, Illinois Courts do not award permanent alimony until a divorce has been finalized. In the interim, the spouses may agree to an amount of support. However, if a couple cannot agree on a support amount, a Judge can order temporary maintenance. Usually, a temporary alimony order ends when the Court issues a final divorce decree.
Rehabilitative Maintenance
Calculating Spousal Support in Illinois
The calculation of spousal maintenance, or alimony, has become increasingly inconsistent in recent years due to the large amount of discretion given to individual judges in assigning awards. However, in 2014, the Illinois legislature passed an amendment to the state's alimony law. The new law works to limit individual judges' discretion in alimony awards by providing judges with a specific set of spousal maintenance guidelines to follow when making their rulings.
The Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act
Prior to the passage of the amendments to the Marriage Act, Judges determined whether a spouse was entitled to alimony based on factors listed in the Illinois statutes. These factors included:
- Each couple's needs;
- The ability of each spouse to earn a living;
- The length of the marriage;
The Effects of Obergefell on Illinois Couples
With the recent historic Supreme Court ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges, same-sex marriage is now legal everywhere in the United States. While legal in Illinois for over a year, the effect for couples who may want to move or travel out of Illinois is significant.
Same-Sex Marriage in Illinois
In 2013, the state legislature approved same-sex marriage in Illinois. Effective as of June 2014, the law allows for same-sex marriage while protecting religious liberties and provides that religious groups may choose which marriage ceremonies to perform; they may not be sued if they refuse to perform a same-sex marriage.
Churches, synagogues, mosques and other places used primarily for the practice, study or advancement of religion cannot be required to use their buildings for same-sex marriage events. Declining to provide a space based on religious beliefs provides immunity from civil and criminal liability.
No-Fault Divorce in Illinois
In addition to allowing for fault-based divorce, the state of Illinois allows no-fault divorce, based on a couple's “irreconcilable differences.” A no-fault divorce may be pursued if neither spouse was at fault — there was no cruelty, infidelity, bigamy, abandonment, drug or alcohol abuse, etc.
If you simply do not want to air your dirty laundry in Court, or do not want to go through the stress of a trial and having to prove fault, then a no-fault divorce may be your best option.
Requirements
To obtain a no-fault divorce in Illinois, a couple must fulfill three requirements:
- Spouses must have lived separate and apart for two continuous years;
- Irreconcilable differences must have caused the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage; and
- Efforts at reconciliation must have failed, or future attempts at reconciliation must not be in the best interests of the family and must be impracticable.
Fault Divorce in Illinois
All U.S. states now have no-fault grounds for divorce. However, Illinois is somewhat unusual — in that Illinois also currently provides for fault-based grounds for divorce. Obtaining a no-fault divorce in Illinois generally requires a two-year waiting period. Fault divorces are quicker, however, and require no waiting period. Still, the spouse seeking a divorce does have to prove fault, which can be difficult.
Grounds
Illinois law provides for several different fault-based grounds for divorce and include the following:
- One spouse is impotent at the time of the marriage, and continues to be impotent;
- Bigamy — one spouse had another husband or wife alive at the time of the marriage;
- Adultery;
- Willful desertion for a period of at least one year, including any time during which a divorce or legal separation was pending;
How to Have a Successful Co-Parenting Relationship
A Florida mother, who violated the terms of a child custody agreement by refusing to turn her four-year-old son over to the father for an agreed upon circumcision, finally consented to having the procedure done at the end of May. During the court proceeding, the judge advised the parents that as they continue to raise their son, disagreements need to be worked out through communication, and not by taking the law into their own hands.
Advice, however, is sometimes easier to give than to take. When a relationship ends because the spouses cannot get along, how are they supposed to work together to raise their children?
While it may not be easy, successful co-parenting is possible after a relationship has ended.
Focus on Communication
Steps to Take Following a Palatine Divorce
Your divorce decree is signed; however, the signature does not mean your work is finished. The signed order may end the marriage, but your responsibility is to tie up the loose ends.
Change Your Name
While your divorce decree may have included a provision allowing you to use a former name, there are steps you must take in order to legally change your name. To begin, you will first need to officially change your name with the Social Security Administration. A new Social Security card under your new name will be issued. Only then can you obtain a new driver's license or state identification card and begin changing your name elsewhere.
Revise Beneficiary Designations
Illinois law provides for the automatic revocation of an ex-spouse as a beneficiary of your will or trust. The law does not, however, automatically revoke your ex-spouse as beneficiary of your life insurance, retirement, or other pay-on-death accounts. Hence, your ex could still inherit the proceeds of these assets. Even if your divorce decree included a waiver of your ex-spouse's rights to receive these benefits at your death, you should change them anyway.
Study Finds Social Media Increasingly to Blame for Divorce
Issues such as adultery, drug use or alcoholism may lead to a couple's divorce. However, a recent study has exposed one more cause — Facebook. According to the study, Facebook, which allows users to “friend” long-lost friends and ex-love interests, is the root cause of one out of every seven divorces.
Facebook and Divorce
One's casual “friend request” to a long-lost love could reignite an old flame. Another's connection with a stranger in a Facebook group might lead a spouse to abandon his or her marriage for a new “love.” Still, such scenarios do not mean that all married couples must give up Facebook or other social media sites entirely. Nor does it mean that you will leave your spouse just because your are in touch with an ex. However, if you are investing too much time on Facebook and not enough in your marriage, the following signs may suggest trouble.
Study Finds Social Media Increasingly to Blame for Divorce
Issues such as adultery, drug use or alcoholism may lead to a couple's divorce. However, a recent study has exposed one more cause — Facebook. According to the study, Facebook, which allows users to “friend” long-lost friends and ex-love interests, is the root cause of one out of every seven divorces.
Facebook and Divorce
One's casual “friend request” to a long-lost love could reignite an old flame. Another's connection with a stranger in a Facebook group might lead a spouse to abandon his or her marriage for a new “love.” Still, such scenarios do not mean that all married couples must give up Facebook or other social media sites entirely. Nor does it mean that you will leave your spouse just because your are in touch with an ex. However, if you are investing too much time on Facebook and not enough in your marriage, the following signs may suggest trouble.
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